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Good Times
Episode 34
80 tables?
Does his family have that many relatives?
It scared me too, imagine what that would be like.
With my tolerance for alcohol, the amount I would have to drink will be enough to kill me.
But you're the one who suggested it, we cannot refuse
You're just asking for it.
I don't need to get married, it's so bothersome
You shouldn't be afraid of getting married because it's bothersome,
the point of Chinese people's weddings is to host meals and drink.
Anyway Xiao Chun is such a nice girl
don't complain about 80 tables, even if its 800 tables
I think it will be worth it.
Aiya my oldest is getting married, I'm so happy.
I just want to have a simple wedding, but it became so much work.
My head is swelling. (Chinese euphemism: means he feels headache)
Wedding is major how can it be simple?
You don't know, because of this wedding my dad and his friends are going crazy overboard.
They have meetings in the house everyday. I'm scared to go there.
Your dad's friend, is aunt Pa right?
How did you know?
Woman's sixth sense
My dad have no interest toward her
Also
Your brother how is he?
After I helped him open the pet store
whenever I call he doesn't tell me anything, no idea what he is doing.
Mom as his financer, you need to trust him
Have faith in him as CEO
CEO
Alright, trust him
XianChun here this is for you
Thank you aunty
Mom isn't this a bit dated?
Aunty is very kind, our names are embroidered on.
Aunt you made it yourself?
Hope you like it
Open it
There is something inside?
Aunty this is too expensive
As my oldest's soon to be wife this is a must
YangHao quickly put it on XiaoChun
Just take it. This isn't only for you.
in the future it will be passed on to your son's wife
Then I'll wait until our wedding to wear it
You're all here?
Oh you're here as well
Good timing, I will tell you how I planned your son's wedding
Today I just had another idea
80 tables, isn't that too much?
Not so, isn't wedding all about having a crowd
We want everyone to know our daughter is married
I even want to rent the road by your school and put up another 80 tables
You are exaggerating too much
YuanHao's dad did say
he will pay
We are thinking can't let him spend too much
But don't worry XiaoChun's wedding we will
make it unforgettable.
Look at you two so excited. What do the kids say?
We should ask them what they want
We think if they hear, they'll be happy too.
So? What does everyone think after listening?
XiHua listen to me
if my son's wedding is really hosted like this
there is no emphasis to it
What is this?
This is like a ceremony for middle aged people's wedding
Well what're your thoughts?
Wedding no matter how you look at it, need to be high class don't you think?
What would be high class?
Lao Pa, please sit listen to me
First of all, Yuan Hao's wedding need to be
Western style
Western is the new trend and high class
Wedding's location need to be set at a 5 star restaurant
Of course high class private club would be better
-writing private club on the chalk board-
Western. Private club.
Isn't that costly and expensive?
I'm not finished. We will not host dinners in this type of club
Instead it will be self service
Everything will be westernized buffet
My only requirement is a high class location
Most importantly, these, these
and these take them all off
We can invite a western orchestra to play some Bach, Mozart and Beethoven famous composition
This is what's called high class entertainment
High class entertainment
You mean incomprehensible entertainment
YuanHao I want to talk to you
Ah ok
Mother you guys discuss first
Just now because the kids were here I didn't want to say
Move over please
Western style. Club.
You think western dining, and western music means style
means high class? That's called unrealistic
Chinese couple wedding needs to emphasis on the Chinese culture uniqueness and their pride.
You probably don't know
Lao Yuan and I, in order to plan YuanHao's wedding,
we put so much thought into it
Lao Pa I sympathize with you
but YuanHao is my son
As the mother, my say should be regarded
Oh, now you think of it you are his mother
Mrs. Luo,
you and Yuan Hao have only recognized each other for half a year
but Yuan Hao and I have known each other for ten years,
he even almost became my son-in-law,
May I ask, where were you ten years ago?
Now that you think of it, you want to fight for a say with me?
Old Pang, don't hurt me with those words
And to say, you didn't become his mother-in-law
In conclusion, I gave birth to Yuan Hao and my blood flows in him
The kind of wedding I like, he must like also
Maybe not, don't forget,
His body mostly flows of Old Yuan's blood too.
Old Yuan, which one would you say you would like?
You guys -laugh and dismissive-
you guys made me confused
Can't you guys discuss peacefully?
You still haven't answered me.
What are the kids doing? I should get them back.
There isn't anyone else under this roof right now,
lets be truthful to eachother
Old Pang, tell me
Are you eyeing on Yuan Hao's father?
None of your business.
Can't you see that you scared them away?
Your good acting is already beyond our level of tolerance.
Us? Who are us?
Who scared who away?
I'll tell you straight up,
I like Old Yuan, what's wrong?
You are too hopeful for yourself
He's a Qipao master, the fabric materials he has seen can exceed your level of education
Oh sorry, you probably don't like learning am I right?
To tell you truthfully, from what I know of him, he will not look at non-cultured people
From what I know of him,
he wouldn't like one that left him and remarried
Let me tell you, no matter if there's any result between Old Yuan and I
You have no right to talk nonsense.
What should we do?
My dad called me this morning and told me that the wedding in Chong Min will require 80 tables, do you know what this means?
Eight hundred people coming to eat, so many for what?
I know, don't worry
My dad has agreed even if ChongMing wants 800 tables, he will still take care of it
If you already know why didn't you tell me
Even if I tell you will it help?
I still haven't solved my family issues, my head's going to explode soon
I thought my mom came back to solve problems, but now
she is also here to add disruption
She is only doing it for our good
But by the look of it, the wedding is looking very unreliable
Luckily, I still have a reliable wife
I want to discuss with you
the wedding is for us two, I don't want to make it big
I just want the world of us too
I think so too.
So you guys are here, I even went downstairs to look for you guys
the wedding was fine, they are being pointless
now they are fighting, what a mess
and forced me to be the judge, I can't do it
You guys go down,
you two should make the decisions
Let's go
Hurry and come down!
You guys should stop forcing me, I don't know what to choose either
Okay, Yuan Hao doesn't know,
Xiao Chun, you choose
Yes, you choose Xiao Chun
You say is Aunt Pang's plan better or Aunt's plan better?
I think they're both good
Then which one is better?
Both of their positives Xiao Chun, don't be pressured
I can be anti-pressured, you can choose all you want
Okay, stop forcing her
We just want a simple wedding.
Yes, yes, no need for all of this
and no need of so many events, just a happy family meal is good
Then, what do you think Xin Hua?
You guys agree with something
I'll just carry it through
But I already promised Xiao Chun's parents,
we must 'fongfongguanguan' welcome her to this home
what 'fongfongguanguan' are you talking about
Stop making it difficult for Uncle.
Uncle, Aunt Pang, Aunt,
I appreciate all your intentions
honestly i think i'm very lucky to marry into this family
A wedding is just an event
You guys are my closest people, I just want you guys to witness our happiness
No need to put so much thought and money
There's seriously no need, simple is the best.
Xiao Chun's intention is also mine.
I don't agree with your intention Then that means you disagree with Xiao Chun's intention.
I never said I disagree with Xiao Chun's intention, I said I disagree with their intention!
Then what is your intention?
I mean, I only have you as a son, and I would only have one daughter-in-law
You make the wedding so simple, what kind of intention is that?
I got you such a good daughter-in-law to marry into the family, and this doesn't mean enough?
And because daughter-in-law is so good,
the wedding should be planned with more intention! Am I right?
Son, you should understand father and mother's intentions
Your father and I just want to do good for you
And my intentions too!
You should know, because of your wedding, your father and I
put in so much effort
you two can't let our hard work be wasted
I understand all of your intentions, can you give us some time
Let us discuss and give you an answer tomorrow
I agree with Yuan Hao's intention.
Oh! Good morning!
You guys scared me. You guys are here,
Planned? No we met downstair
Oh, haha
where is YuanHao
maybe still sleeping
It's 9 something and he's still sleeping? Wake him up!
Let my son sleep a bit more.
Yuan Hao never wakes up late.
How do you know if he wakes up late or not?
He almost became my son-in-law, why would I not know?
already been 10 years, ages ago
better than nothing
You guys must have eaten too much for breakfast.
What is there to fight about?
Yuan Hao? Yuan Hao?
it's over YuanHao ran away
Father, once you see this message,
XiaoChun and I are on our way to Wangle(?)
don't worry about us
I made a decision last night, to pause the wedding
I still have to go to the grassland for a important task
I don't even know how to face mom and dad now.
I don't know either.
I don't want to get married anymore.
I don't either. I said I don't want to get married like this,
I mean that I also don't want to get married like this. Why are you always learning to copy my words?
You are my wife, if I don't learn from you, who do I learn it from then?
But your a guy, shouldn't you have ideas
Ok I'm going to my idea
You follow what I say. Say it then.
We should let our parents calm down.
How do we let them calm down? Let's go to the Prairies!
What are we going to do in the Prairies? Elopement!
Woah.
Woah you are so masculine!
You used to look like a little Shanghai man to me.
now I look up to you
What are you doing? You don't want to run away with me? Can we not take the plane?
Didn't you promise me you would take the plane? If you can't even fulfill this promise, do you think I could marry you?
Isn't it the same to take the train? I don't want to wait so long.
How about you take the plane and I take the train and you wait for me?
I want to be with you.
Let me think of another solution.
My love, you shouldn't be nervous, you should relax
It's okay, facing love, every problem becomes not a problem.
If you need to die, I'll die with you
And die too?
Hey, don't leave.
why are you so crude
Oh even your hands are cold.
Sweating? Do you want to go to the washroom?
Yes. The washroom is that way!
Okay, I won't tease you.
You don't need to be so nervous, it will be fine if you go to sleep after you get on the plane.
I can't sleep. I even prepared medicine.
What medicine? Sleeping medication! What's the use of it?
I am a doctor, do you want to use it or not?
Found a doctor to become my wife, I'll use it.
Let's go hubby!
Dad, isn't it comfortable?
harder, sure
Xue Er, get some Dim Sum for dad. Dad do you want Dim Sum?
I don't want to eat right now.
Okay, then just eat oranges.
Xue Er, thank you for comforting me you guys.
Dad look, you're younger son and younger daughter-in-law is so good,
dispose the elder son Your brother is so much older than you,
but he is not as sensible as you.
Isn't there a theory called, pre-wedding anxiety disorder?
Do you think it's because your mother and I divorced early
that your brother got a pre-wedding anxiety disorder?
Father, don't worry, if my brother got a pre-wedding anxiety disorder,
he wouldn't have promised Xiao Chun's marriage.
He must have his own reasons to such actions.
What reasons?
He doesn't even think for his parents a bit.
My brother's doings are a little capricious,
but dad, my brother is definitely not trying to make you mad on purpose
You should understand him
also YuanHao's letter
he just wrote that he'll pause the wedding, it doesn't mean he would never marry
He and Xiao Chun just went abroad to travel, they will return
why are you worry so much? I'm worrying of
what Xiao Chun's parents would think.
They must say
that the people of the Yuan family are really irresponsible.
Dad, don't worry,
XiaoChun is very virtuous, her parents must be well understanding
That's right, dad eat a slice of orange, don't think too much okay?
Hey hey hey!
I see a lot of cows!
You think for a second,
you've been sleeping for several hours,
a road of grass, such a nice scenary,
you've missed it all.
Wake up!
Sir turn up your stereo, highest and loudest
sorry the stereo is broken
Miss, is the gentleman not feeling well? He's been sleeping this whole time
very healthy no problems, jet lag
Did you just return from overseas? Yes, from Korea.
He's jetlagging from Korea too?
If you don't wake up I'll send you to Korea
Hello, miss do you have reservations?
No, I want two rooms.
Two rooms?
You guys aren't here for a honeymoon?
Do we look like a couple?
Yes, I think you guys have quite a couple look.
We still haven't married yet. Oh you're here for dating.
Then you guys have came to the right place.
here we have blue sky, green grass and grazing animals everywhere
Your relationship will become better and better.
Next time, you could get one less room.
We welcome you back for your honeymoon!
Thank you.
Woah!
The hotel scenery is too beautiful.
Wake up wakeup! Let's go out and play!
Let me sleep.
didn't you say when we're here you'll squeeze some fresh milk for me
There are a lot of cows out there.
can't no strength
why
You slept in the airplane, you come here to sleep to?
Your medicine was too heavy.
My medicine was to let you sleep on the airplane, not sleep in here.
I was nervous on the airplane, I couldn't sleep.
I'll count to three. Three.
You won't wake up like this right? Okay.
I will drive the car away and take away your phone.
And I'll leave you here and not care for you, you can sleep here for a lifetime.
i'm going to play with cows, when your awake don't look for me
Goodbye.
Ba Tu Teacher? yes, I am Ba Tu.
You're Yuan Hao? Yes that's me, nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, finally get to see you.
Why are you here alone, where's your girlfriend?
I haven't told her yet, I want to give her a surprise.
I can tell that you put a lot of effort towards her.
Because she's my woman,
I don't want her to leave behind any regrets in this life.
This word is just like what us Prairie men would say.
You don't know, ours leaders after they heard your story
was very moved. The last few months in order to find Anshan
put in alot of work, in the end thanks to the hard work we found it
you have to thank them for me!
No problem!
Anshan's health is alright?
it's good, but he's getting old, his ears are going bad
don't worry, I will wait for you guys here tomorrow.
Sorry to bother you.
No problem!
What are you looking at?
Didn't I tell you? Don't look for me after you wake up.
I'm scared that if I still don't come and find you, you will dispose me and not want me.
You understand very well do you? You know that I will dispose you right?
Your medicine was really too heavy, my head still hurts
I forgot to compliment you
you behaved very well on the airplane
the whole way you spoke the entire time, didn't need to eat the medicine
Actually, I'm not as brave as you imagined me to be
I was too nervous on the plane, so the medicine couldn't do anything to me
who knew after the flight the medicine started working
You won't be afraid of plane anymore, right?
I will not only be scare of taking the plane in the future, I will also be scare to take medications in the future!
Cut it out.
Traveling is your job.
Just this two cows and I found them myself.
Usually when we organise tours, we rest for the first day.
Let the body adjust and I have organised schedules for tomorrow.
No, I want to do something today!
Are you sure? Aren't we jet lag?
What jet lag?
Didn't I just come back from Korea hence the jet lag?
So you were not sleeping?
Tour guide Xiao Yuan, tell me what is the history of this tent.
Are you testing me? Yes.
Ok, this tent is named as a pile in Mongolian.
Mongolians use this tent to paid their respect to their ancestors.
They pray for peace, longevity and health.
Then can you pray for love? You want to pray for love?
You already have love so why are you praying for love?
I want to pray for eternal love.
Up the heaven you go...
Stop singing, I already feel like I am in the sky!
For which grassland do we have...
Yuan Hao Dad.
Yuan Hao Dad?
Xiao Chun dad and mom,
quick come in,
have a seat!
Are you still having your meal?
No problem, have you eaten?
We have eaten on our way here.
Don't you think this coincidental? I have been meaning to call you and you are here instead?
Have a sit!
How did you find this place?
I have already told Xiao Chun that we want to visit you.
Then I have already requested for your home address.
When we got Xiao Chun's message,
we came in a hurry.
I am really sorry, really really sorry.
It was Yuan Hao that had no manner.
How can he just take Xiao Chun away like this!
I really don't know what else can I say...
Please don't think like this.
We all understanding the intention of the kids right?
Old Yuan, let's not panic,
actually we feel that it is really safe for Xiao Chun to be with Yuan Hao.
I know that you are comforting me now.
This is really Yuan Hao's mishandling!
It is only picking a wedding proposal, what is so hard about this?
If you don't agree,we can negotiate further.
Now,
both weddings, Shanghai and Chong Min are cancelled because of him.
Not cancelled, not cancelled only postponed.
Old Yuan,
as parents we should also reflect on this.
Have we forced them too much?
Stop beating around the bush, just say directly.
Old Yuan, let me say this.
Although we want our daughter to marry earlier,
but this is the kids' choice so we should respect their decision right?
So we came here specially to discuss with you.
Let's not force the kids to have wedding,
What we are saying is not to give them pressure right?
yes, yes, yes.
Do you understand our intention?
Yes, I totally understand.
To tell the truth, I was unable to accept this at first.
But now we are both thinking of the same thing.
I will not give them any more pressure from now on.
Good, good, good.
Coming.
Had your shower? Come in.
It's already so late what do you want to eat?
I am not hungry, I just want to say something to you.
Shouldn't we give your dad a call?
We just left like this with only a letter for him, why he be upset?
If he is angry and worried, he would have already called me.
And if we call them now it means that we have surrendered.
This way, what is the purpose of eloping?
You can't think like this.
Yuan Uncle used to think highly of me,
but after this, he might change his opinion of me!
You are his son so he won't blame you but he will blame me.
In the letter that I left him, I clearly stated that this was my idea and nothing to do with you.
Also even if we want to call we have to at least wait till tomorrow.
We need to give them time to reflect!
We are juniors, how can we make seniors reflect?
They were in the wrong so it is only right that they reflect on it!
You are too wilful!
I am wilful? I have yet to question you!
What is wrong with me? Why did you get us two rooms?
Or else? What or else? One room is enough!
How do we sleep in one room? Of course just like this!
We are not married yet!
This is the first time that we are spending the night outside together.
No, we had a night together in Zhu Tao's coffee cafe before.
That is not the same.
Do you know how far this place is from Shanghai?
Quite far? Yes.
So we are currently without restrictions!
Does it mean that without restrictions we can ignore what is right or wrong?
Does this mean that we can have sex?
See the post is so high, it is impossible to reach!
Why can't we just go to bed why go to the wedding room?
What are you thinking of doing?
We should do whatever we want to do.
Then what is it that you want to do?
What do you want to do?
Are you all virgo men like this?
What you say doesn't telly with what you want to do?
No,
us Virgo men has always been polite first then do the act!
Are you done?
Done.
You are still all talk!
Hey, what I mean is...
Too late!
I am borrowing your pillow to sleep tonight.
Yesterday, reception told me,
that this grassland is really suitable for dating.
So she is really telling the truth!
I am reluctant to leave, shall we stay on for a few more days?
Ok, listen to you.
Then is the first station to experience the life of the tribes?
I want you to experience the life of your dad when he was living here.
My dad, why are you talking about my dad now?
When I saw the letter written by your mom,
I decided on my own accord,
that I want to bring you here to see how your dad was living,
Did my dad stay here?
Should be.
The grassland is so vast, how did you find the place?
Actually I didn't carry much hope before,
but it seems that it is fate that your dad was waiting for you as well.
Then how do you confirm that my dad was living here before?
Let me introduce someone to you. You will find your answer soon.
Ba Tu Teacher, Ba Tu Teacher!
Yuan Hao.
This is my girlfriend
How are you? Good.
This is Ba Tu Teacher and it was him that helped me.
How are you? Good.
Have you seen my dad before?
I didn't but the old man, inside, An Shan has seen him before.
Please go in.
Grandpa,
have you seen my dad before?
Ba Tu Teacher say that he is hard of hearing.
He says that you really looked like your dad.
How tall was my dad?
He said that your dad was about Yuan Hao's height.
He said that this was left behind by my dad before and now he is returning it to you.
Thanks!
When they discovered your dad's body before, they buried it on the spot.
After so many years, even An Shan old man can't remember its exact location.
This trip that you took to find her father's past, I believe that her dad in heaven,
will be able to feel her sincerity.
I believe that lots of things in life is fated.
Xiao Chun and I get to know each other on the grassland.
Here too?
Not so coincidental but no matter where, I have already fallen deeply in love with the grassland.
This is your fate with the grassland.
Since you are already here, don't leave in a hurry.
Tonight as your host, stay for dinner.
How can I do this, I am imposing on you.
Don't be polite with me, stay here and keep her company.
I won't disturb you.
Then I will make the move first.
Thanks.
But there is still some regret that I can't find his burial ground.
Having my dad's diary means that I can now listen to him.
So although we are not together,
I can already feel that both of our hearts are connected.
Do you know why I wanted to bring you here?
I want your dad to see you.
Let him know that his daughter is all grown up and about to get married.
I also want your dad to see me.
Let him feel safe
that his daughter has found a good man.
Xiao Chun, let's go back to Shanghai and register our marriage.
Am I getting married to you just like this?
I didn't prepare anything now.
No flowers and no ring.
But I believe that your dad can see us,
I believe that he has already agree to this.
Are you willing to marry me?
I feel that to love a person and to marry him,
is the happiest thing in this world.
.Are you willing to give me this happiness?